It’s once more the time of year when graduate student thoughts turn to the writing of syllabi and the purchasing of new stationery. This year I was asked to lead some of the training sessions for the department’s incoming cohort of graduate students, and to share advice with them about how to approach their time here. I’m reproducing some of my remarks here, because they include things I need to remind myself of every now and then.<\/p>\n
“Enjoy your time here. There will be plenty of things to complain about\u2014grading, advisors, the job market, grading, grant applications, grading\u2014but you are going to spend at least five years here surrounded by people who are all passionate about history, getting paid to read and to research. Venting is a great and necessary thing, but every now and then remind yourself why you\u2019re here.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t fret about how much you don\u2019t know, or how much more your colleagues seem to know in comparison to you. There\u2019s a term for this\u2014Impostor Syndrome\u2014which means that feeling that no matter how much you\u2019ve accomplished, someone\u2019s going to unmask you as a fraud at any moment. High-achieving women and first-generation college students in particular are prone to this. Remind yourself that it\u2019s okay. If you don\u2019t know something, that\u2019s okay. That\u2019s why you\u2019re in graduate school, this is where you\u2019re going to start learning\u2014and<\/em> where, pro tip, you\u2019re surrounded by other really smart people who also don\u2019t know everything. An awareness of what you need to work on is great, but don\u2019t let it turn into chronic self-doubt or feelings of inadequacy. On the flip side, if you\u2019ve arrived here thinking that you know better than your advisor, or even your peers\u2014you don\u2019t. Remember what pride goeth before.<\/p>\n Repeat the mantra: \u201cI am not my work.\u201d Your self-worth isn\u2019t dependent on what you produce.<\/p>\n Make sure that your office is always stocked with a heavy duty stapler, a water bottle, your preferred form of caffeine, and Kleenex. The Kleenex isn\u2019t necessarily for you\u2014you will see what I mean when you have office hours in the run-up to exam week.<\/p>\n Be kind to yourself. Be kind to other people. If you\u2019ve been working for a week straight, your body and your mind are going to need time off. Don\u2019t let guilt drive you into all-nighters or endless stretches in your office. It\u2019s one of those weird brain things, that sometimes you need to think about nothing in order to be able to think about anything. Make your writing a priority, protect your own boundaries, but don\u2019t cut yourself off from other people. Sometimes it\u2019s a good thing to give up your time on behalf of others. Your training as a historian doesn\u2019t just involve acquiring a knowledge of your field\u2019s historiography or how to plumb the depths of JSTOR, but also learning what it means to be a colleague.<\/p>\n When you go to conferences, do not be an asshole. People will remember you.<\/p>\n Get to know graduate students and faculty at Iowa outside of the history department. Their perspectives will enrich your work in unexpected ways. Remember to keep in touch with the family and friends you had before you moved here\u2014you will want to stay grounded with people who knew you before you were mumbling about comps lists in your sleep.<\/p>\n Read stuff outside your field. Read fiction. Read poetry. Read with an eye to the ways in which people use language. It will help with your own writing, but also it\u2019s just fun<\/em>. You will need to remember what fun is.<\/p>\n Your relationship with your advisor is going to be extremely important. Depending on Never presume upon the time of Pat, Sheri, and Heather, the department\u2019s administrative assistants. Always appreciate their work, and the fact that they know so much more about the arcane ways of university bureaucracy than you do. They know all. They see all.<\/p>\n Have a sense of purpose, but just as importantly, have a sense of humour. And remember that here I\u2019m giving advice which I don\u2019t always follow. I have days when I think my dissertation is crap and I just want to go home. But I love what I do. Remember that you love what you do.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n * “She hoped to be wise and reasonable in time; but alas! alas! she must confess to herself that she was not wise yet.” \u2014Jane Austen, Persuasion<\/em>, Chapter 19.<\/p>\n It’s once more the time of year when graduate student thoughts turn to the writing of syllabi and the purchasing of new stationery. 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\nwho that person is, you may develop a strong mentoring relationship with them; with others you may not. Regardless, you\u2019re going to have to learn to advocate for yourself with your advisor. Take their advice on board, but remember that their career is not your career, that their priorities are not necessarily your priorities. Seek out the people who will be your best guides.<\/p>\n